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June 2021


                                   OBITUARIES



                  The Revd Carol Langford
         Eulogy given at Carol’s funeral on Friday 23rd April by her son Daniel
         Before  I  begin,  I  would  like to  start  by  thanking our  family,  the church  family,
         friends,  neighbours  and  the  wider community for  the  outpouring of  support  that
         we have received  in the  past few weeks;  it  has provided  a source  of comfort in
         difficult and challenging times.

         I  would  also  like to thank  those  who have  helped  me prepare  this  eulogy  by
         sharing their  memories,  stories and  reflections of  my  Mum,  either  directly  or
         through the  many  lovely  cards received.  This  has  enabled  me to  build  what  I
         hope is  a fitting  and  accurate profile of  my  Mum,  her  life and  her many
         achievements.
         I am sorry that the circumstances don’t allow many of you to be in the church, but
         please be assured that you are very much here with us today.
         I have tried to come up with an original title for my Mum’s eulogy, befitting of the
         original person that she was, so I have gone with ‘my Mum.’


         My Mum

         My Mum was a loving daughter and enjoyed a close relationship with her parents.
         I know that they were very proud of her and she will be deeply missed by them. As
         a sister, she loved her two brothers, and took on a protective older sibling role from
         a young  age;  on one occasion,  when  two boys picked  on my uncles,  my  Mum
         ‘sorted them out’, and such was the impact of this that they were never bothered
         again.

         My Mum was a devoted wife. She and my Dad were married for nearly 40 years,
         and formed an unbreakable partnership in a loving and devoted marriage. They
         were,  in  my  Dad’s words,  ‘joined  at  the hip’  and  were each other’s best friend.
         Outside of  their working  lives  they did  everything
         together.  This included caravanning,  which  they  loved
         and  through which  they  visited  a  range  of  destinations,
         both at  home and   abroad;  either  together or with
         friends.  In more  recent years,  my parents discovered  a
         love  of  Barbados,  and  would  visit at  the  start  of  each
         year.  In  both  instances,  the  ‘constantly on the  go’
         version of my Mum that many would be familiar with was
         transformed, and she could be found relaxing in the sun,
         with  a drink or  book  (or both).  This included  her last


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