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 VILLAGE HALL NEWS              OBITUARIES



 Well  in  many  ways  this  year  has  seemed  stranger
 than last year when we were all under the various
 lockdowns.  Life  chopped  and  changed  regularly   Olive Curtis
 and  we  somehow  had  to  try  and  make  sense  of
 what  was  happening  and  what  the  right  thing  to
 do  was  and  so  the  village  hall  has  enjoyed  a  fairly  good  year  as  most  of  our   Olive was born on 17 June 1929, at Puddletown, Dorset, the second daughter
 regular hirers have returned and picked up where they left off with their various   of George and Ada Stainer, and younger sister to Kathleen (fondly known as
 activities.    Kit).
         Sadly her dad passed away at a very young age when Olive was only three.
         However,  she  had  a  good  and  happy  childhood  being  brought  up  by  her
         widowed  mum,  sister,  other  close  family  members  and  friends.  Olive  often
         remembered going to Christmas pantomimes in Bournemouth with her cousin
         Win, something she continued throughout her later life.
         Olive  initially  went  to  the  local  school  in  Puddletown  and  latterly  to
         Dorchester  Grammar  School  after  passing  their  entry  exam.    On  leaving
         school  Olive  started  her  first  job  as  a  short-hand  typist  at  County  Hall  in
         Dorchester.

         Olive met Doug, a local farm labourer, at a New Years’ Eve dance in 1946,
         their courtship soon followed and they were engaged in December 1948.  On
         21 October 1950 Olive and Doug were married in Puddletown Church.  The
         happy  couple  started  married  life  staying  with  Ada,  Olive’s  mum,  in
         Puddletown, where their first child Richard was born in October 1951.  Soon
         after  this  they  moved  to  West  Knighton  but  Olive  would  still  visit  her  mum,
         cycling  back  to  Puddletown  with  Richard  on  the  back  of  her  bike.  In
 It’s  been  great  to  see  Yoga  and  Pilates  returning  alongside  Short  Mat  Bowls,    December  1955  their  second  child  Valerie  was  born.  Doug’s  working
 Artsreach events and the Purbeck Film Festival and Mike Menzies talks evenings all   commitments on the farm took them to Bladen Valley, Briantspuddle, where
 taking differing approaches to covid as their organisations saw fit. It’s also been   in October 1964 Diana was born. In 1970 the family were on the move again,
 good to see the community group return to running the Saturday morning coffee   this  time  to Sitterton, Bere Regis.   This was  to be their  last family  move,  with
 shop  and  Let’s  Lunch,  providing  us  all  with  the  much  needed  opportunities  to   Richard,  Valerie  and  Diana  all  leaving  the  ‘nest’  to  start  their  own  married
 meet up and catch up over a meal or a coffee and a bacon roll.   journeys.  In  1990  Olive  and  Doug  were  able  to  celebrate  their  ‘Ruby’
         wedding  anniversary  with  family  and  friends  at  a
 We  had  a  very  successful  Christmas  Fayre  with  many  people,  stall  holders  and   party  in  Puddletown  Village  Hall.  Shortly  after  the
 visitors alike, saying it’s one of the best they can remember. There was certainly a   sudden  death  of Doug in 1992 Olive  moved  more
 great  atmosphere  with  everyone  enjoying  an  event  that  reminded  us  what   centrally in the village to Manor Farm Road, which
 normal was like again. Once again the village shop was able to hold its pop up   was to be her final home in Bere Regis.
 Christmas shop, made possible by the coffee shop relocating to the main hall for
 a couple of weeks, in the jubilee room. For me this type of event is what village   Olive always kept busy during her married life, not
 parish  life  should  be  all  about  different  organisations  working  together  in   just  in  the  family  home  but  elsewhere  in  the  local
 cooperation  to  provide  even  wider  activities  and  benefits  to  our  whole   community.    She  was  on  the  cleaning  rota  at
 community.


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