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                                                                                              Paul Martin      07788 185048

                                OBITUARIES                                                  Electrics          01929 289323
                                                                                                      paulmartinelectrics@outlook.com
                he was delighted by this, rather than bearing any rancour towards this
                second family who had the benefit of the father he had never known           Local BH20 electrician,  with over forty years’
       himself.                                                                              experience offering:-
       After the collapse of his marriage to our mother, and a romance or two, some                                                Small load  -  £75  Large load  -  £160
       of which turned into great friendships, he found what can only be described as         Consumer Unit (fuse
       the love of his life in Heather. It was a love story which meant the world to him,     board) Replacement
       something that Marki and I were very much aware of, and inexpressibly happy            Emergency call-out
       about.                                                                                 Service
                                                                                              Additions and
       Our father was a very tolerant man, at whose very core was a belief that all           Alterations to Existing
       mankind was born equal, and of equal value, and who accepted people for                Installations
       what they were. At a time when punk used to drive “squares” into apoplexy, I
       could quite easily find him chatting to some creature with pierced cheeks and          Portable Appliance
       a colourful Mohican. Over the years, in bars and pubs, I’ve seen him chatting          Testing
       away  happily  to  clergymen  and  gangsters,  to  warriors  and  pacifists,  to      No VAT – Fully Insured
       academics and street sweepers and everyone in between. They all had equal             Part P Compliant
       value as humans to him.                                                               Free Estimates
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       Anyone  who  was  sadly  familiar  with  his  impoverished  state  in  his  later  years,
       because  of  the  Equitable  Life  pension  whose  value,  after  a  lifetime  of  his
       contributions, was criminally destroyed and never compensated by the sleazy
       charlatans, of all parties, running this country…well, this could have been very
       different.
                                                                                                                                          Dorchester
       In the 80’s when Marki and I were still at school, Hamworthy asked him to work
       in South Africa. It was a job he would have excelled at, he loved travelling and                                                     Framing
       discovering  cultures,  and  he  was  offered  the  best  package  of  his  life.  Pay,
       pension,  school  fees  and  flights  home,  it  was  all  laid  out  for  him.  But  it  was                                  Picture and framing service
                                                                                                                                        with a wide selection of
       during the apartheid years, Mandela was still in jail, and he just couldn’t do it.
                                                                                                                                         mounts and frames.
       It  was  NOT  some  dark  night  of  the  soul,  where  he  had  to  make  a  decision
       balancing  self-interest  with  conscience.  He  was  almost  in  tears  as  he  kept                                           Open most days but best
       apologising to Marki and myself: “I know we’d have much more money, and in                                                      call first before making a
       many ways you two would have a much better life, but I just can’t bring myself                                                         special trip.
       to work there while that lot are in charge”. He said no.
       The company increased the offer. But the no was final.                                                                         joan@dorchesterframing.com

       We all have our memories of him. I think we’ll all miss                                                                           The Old School House
       him.
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